tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-66011981507823119652024-03-23T04:28:24.756-07:00Sort of GoneSarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-51708349605146371042015-01-25T05:58:00.002-08:002015-01-25T06:00:52.512-08:00Why Walking Makes Cents<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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On December 16, I strapped a Fitbit onto my left wrist
where—save for swimming and showers and the occasional reboot—it’s stayed ever
since. I’ve always walked. I like to walk, even in cold weather, though I
dislike wind and cold. I bought a Fitbit (hereinafter “Fitbit”) because I
wanted to track how much I was walking and when, and how that translated into
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If the scale is right, I’ve lost five pounds. I’m sleeping a
lot better, too, according to Fitbit. It measures that, too. But what Fitbit
doesn’t measure is mental health and how that translates into creative
well-being, because I’ve noticed an uptick—no, a spike—in that.</div>
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So many writers are walkers. Wallace Stevens never learned
to drive and so walked the two miles to and from his work as an insurance
executive in Hartford, Connecticut. His neighbors say he would “walk
differently” from night to night, even backing up to repeat his steps as he
worked out the words in his head. Cheryl Strayed took a 1,000-plus mile hike
and writes (famously) about it in her book <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Wild</i>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Virginia Woolf and James Joyce set
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But what is it about walking and its link to creativity?
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chemistry. When we go for a walk, the heart pumps faster, circulating more
blood and oxygen not just to the muscles but to all the organs—including the
brain. . . . The way we move our bodies further changes the nature of our
thoughts, and vice versa. . . . Walking at our own pace creates an
unadulterated feedback loop between the rhythm of our bodies and our mental
state that we cannot experience as easily when we’re jogging at the gym,
steering a car, biking, or during any other kind of locomotion. When we stroll,
the pace of our feet naturally vacillates with our moods and the cadence of our
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Because it is winter in New York, I usually walk with my
head down. There is ice on the sidewalks and the roads where I walk, secret ice
under the thin layer of snow that is there on early mornings. I don’t want to
fall, so I walk carefully and sometimes slowly, always with my head down so I
can see what’s ahead. The upside of this is the money I find, coins of all
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Money is money. The coins go into a red plastic pig that I’ll
empty at the end of the year and count up, tangible evidence of what I’ve
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I started knitting socks in April of 2012. I'd tried socks a couple of times before and was always rewarded with epic fails--big, fat, sloppy socks that bagged at the ankle and could house a family of five. But this time I found a pattern that seemed doable in one of the <a href="http://www.yarnharlot.ca/">Yarn Harlot'</a>s books and bought a set of bamboo needles (size one, U.S.) that were only a little thicker than a toothpick.<br />
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I cast on and set out. I knit while sitting on the love seat in front of the open window. I watched the leaves push out, tiny and green, on the trees across the street. I made one pair, then another. I watched the leaves on the top branches of the trees start to turn and curl. By the end of the summer, I'd made seven pairs--a few of them wearable--and learned a few tricks along the way about short rows, heel shaping and good vs. bad yarns. Since then I've probably knit up a dozen pairs, most of which I've given away as birthday or Christmas gifts. </div>
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What's true of pots is true of socks and writing and any other art in which talent runs a distant second to diligence. Practice makes stuff. It's not an event ("I wrote today!") but a process. It does not make perfect or much of anything as Sylvia Plath noted when she wrote: "Perfection is terrible, it cannot have children."<br />
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Apparently those advertising people were onto something beyond running when they coined the slogan "Just do it." Whatever it is you've been wanting to do, just do it.<br />
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I don’t remember who taught me to knit mittens. It might
have been my maternal grandmother, Marie Lok, or maybe it was my mother who guided
me from cast on to cast off, who showed me how to increase every three rows to make
the thumb placket, to decrease to form the arch that would curve around the
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While cleaning out the deeper recesses of my clothes closet
last summer, I found the pattern for those long-ago two needle mittens, a
thirty-one-page instruction booklet—priced at twenty cents—published by the
Jack Frost Yarn Company (“First Choice of Millions of Knitters”) in the late
1940s. There are instructions for mittens “for the growing child” as well as
directions for a pair of women’s lace gloves that are both “pretty and
practical” and intricately patterned pair of Norwegian mittens.<br />
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edges of a few pages are tattered, most of the pamphlet is surprisingly intact
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Some years ago I ditched the two-needle pattern and started
knitting four-needle mittens. There’s no seam to sew up at the end; when you’re
finished knitting, you’re done, save for some knots to tie and some ends to
weave in. Unlike socks, which take a dog’s age and require the eyesight of a
fighter pilot, you can knit a pair of mittens in a weekend, over the course of
a couple of football games. I’ve knit mittens for each of my sisters and for
several of my friends. The pair I’m knitting now (pictured here) are for me,
necessitated by the fact that the black mittens I’ve been wearing (knit some
years ago) have finally worn out. The thumb sprung a leak during my walk
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And so this weekend, I’m knitting mittens. The yarn I’m working
with is softer than the scratchy wool I remember from the first pair I ever
made. This wool is machine washable, too, and the color is a heathered orange that
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Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-12525206538712153672013-06-29T07:48:00.001-07:002013-06-29T07:48:44.463-07:00Making Time DisappearEight weeks out from teaching my last class, I am trying to make time disappear. This is a good thing.<br />
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This morning, I ground up coffee beans in the old manual coffee grinder I found in my grandmother's stuff. It was made in Germany. It could have been my great-grandmother's, come to think of it.<br />
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This summer is all about task, not time. I write without a clock. Time does not circumscribe task.<br />
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The coffee tastes better.Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-42044600512239321072013-06-22T07:11:00.003-07:002013-06-22T11:42:38.321-07:00Inexplicable Sorrow, Unexpected Pleasures<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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I didn’t put in a garden this year. “Garden” is probably a
misnomer, as mine is limited to whatever I can fit on the fire escape. One year
it was heirloom tomatoes and basil, and the tomatoes were so delicious I tried
it again the following year. The squirrels found the tomatoes to be
irresistible and peed in the basil. The next year I put in pots of petunias and
did so every year until now. </div>
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Petunias grow well on my fire escape, which faces south and
gets sun for the better part of the day. The brick walls hold onto heat and
it’s not unusual for a petunia or two to bloom in December or until the first
measurable snowfall. </div>
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I had a thesis to finish this May and some traveling to do
in the latter weeks of the month. Memorial Day was cool and un-summerlike. My
cat took a turn for the worse. Each day I thought about going to the garden
store for soil and some flats of flowers and didn’t.</div>
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My cat Beachamp died last week. He’d been on medication for
a chronic condition for more than a year and the prognosis wasn’t good. He’d
had a happy life and I wanted his death to be a reflection of that life, of his
stoicism and his dignity. He was a comfort and a joy. </div>
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A door shuts, another opens. Last week I was vacuuming in my
office, the fire escape room, when I noticed a single petunia poking up and out of what
I had mistaken for weeds. After days of rain, the sun came out and the flower opened, the
first of many blooming from seedlings. All of them are white, except for the
pink one you see in the picture above.</div>
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I want to think that’s Beauchamp: Still flowering. Still
here. </div>
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Through twenty-three years and five moves across two states,
I’ve kept a manila file folder containing the first acceptance letter I ever
received. The letter is typed on cream-colored stationery, glossy and substantial,
and is embossed with the letterhead of the magazine that accepted that long-ago
first story. Looking at it now, I still remember the sense of hope I felt standing
there in the dusty foyer of the rowhouse apartment where I lived in
Philadelphia. I remember thinking the envelope was too fat to be a letter of
acceptance, but too slim to be the story I’d sent them, only to be returned to
me now with regrets. </div>
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submission manager and hit “Submit.” Seconds later I received a form e-mail
from the journal thanking me for my submission. It cost me nothing but a moment
of my time and spared me a slog to the post office on a crummy day, the way I’d
done so long ago in Philadelphia. I remember how I’d hiked that short story down
to the post office not far from City Hall and kissed the clasp envelope before
handing it to the amused clerk. I was a graduate student at the time, living on
student loans and a part-time job as a proofreader; the money that I spent on
postage to send that story and others out into the world would have been
considerable—part of the dues I thought I needed to pay become a writer. </div>
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Recently, a friend shared a story on his blog about a
journal that accepted four of his poems nearly two years ago, only to send him
an e-mail months later rejecting those same four poems. After many back and
forth e-mails, the editor (the same one who’d accepted the poems) attributed
the rejection to “budget cuts.” And so my friend did what most poets do when
they receive rejection: Moved on and resubmitted those poems to other
magazines. Several of the poems were subsequently accepted, suggesting a
happily-ever-after ending –-until recently, when he received a print copy of
the journal that had rejected him containing (you guessed it) the four poems
the magazine had declined.</div>
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As writers we’re well advised not to take rejection
personally, to treat it not as an event—as Carolyn See writes—but as a process.
To be sure, e-mailed rejections can be easily dismissed as blips, the briefest
of interruptions on an otherwise okay day. But acceptance – whether the first
or the hundred and first – <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">should</i> be an
event, a worthy-of-fireworks ceremony marking the final mile in a creative
journey that started with a handful of words whispering <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">this way</i>. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And a letter
dropped through a mail slot or tucked into a box next to the front door affirms
this in a way that an e-mail is simply unable to. </div>
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The day I received that first letter of acceptance I called
all of my friends. I toasted myself with a bottle of beer and when I finally
fell asleep, the letter was next to me on the pillow. </div>
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It smelled like hope. It still does. </div>
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<b><u>An Ode to East Avenue Wegmans</u></b></div>
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Really, can you grieve a building? Can you miss a building the
way you would a dead parent or a beloved pet? Can you grieve a building that
was in no way distinguished architecturally or historical or remarkable, a
building that was in fact nothing more than a pile of nondescript beige bricks?
A building with dingy linoleum floors, narrow aisles and a vegetable section
that was all but impossible to negotiate on Sunday morning.</div>
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The answer to each question is yes, yes, yes and yes.</div>
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This morning at 7 a.m., to the delight of a thousand
people—a couple dozen of those who’d been waiting in line for twenty-four
hours—the new East Avenue Wegmans opened. It’s not the old building, to be
sure, whose old footprint is now forever underneath the lot I parked in this morning.
It’s big and clean and I wager to say that no one will go missing in the vast
room of veggies and fruits. But underneath the shine is the same old East
Avenue Wegmans—the familiar faces of employees who, for nearly twenty-two years, have seemed like friends.</div>
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So much of my history here in Rochester is tied to that
store. Wegmans is where I went the Tuesday afternoon in 1999 when my mother
died, to buy cat food and litter before leaving for the week. When the clerk at
the checkout counter asked me if I’d found everything I was looking for, I told
her my mother died. She was the first person I’d spoken to and my voice sounded
dusty and unused. “I’m so sorry,” she said, and leaned around the counter to
give me a hug.</div>
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On September 11, 2001, when I couldn’t bear to see another
replay of those planes crashing into the World Trade Center, I turned off my
television and drove to Wegmans. The aisles were full of people who walked as
if they were fragile, breakable, and yet it was as quiet as a church. I
suspected they, like me, didn’t need much in the way of groceries, only to
understand that the world would somehow go on. </div>
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When my Wegmans closed in late February, I missed it
terribly. I deliberately avoided driving by that area. I didn’t want to see the
line of bulldozers, the shattered glass and the eventual pile of bricks of the
old store. It was late winter, and everything is harder here in late winter.</div>
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Just before seven this morning, minutes before the new store
was about to open its doors, a longtime employee—apron in hand—waved as she
walked past the line. There were shouts of “Karen! There’s Karen! Yay, Karen!”
and several people applauded as if the sidewalk were suddenly a red carpet.</div>
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You just had to be there.<br />
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Last night, driving toward home on the street where I live, I saw my cat sitting in the window. His name is Beauchamp and he waits for me. Anyone who thinks cats are aloof or lacking in affection doesn't know cats, doesn't know my cat. He waits for me and when he sees my car, hears my key in the door downstairs, he jumps down onto the love seat so he can act like he's been there all along. Act like a cat, in other words. Aloof.<br />
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I woke up at 4:30 yesterday morning, courtesy of a bird singing in a tree near the same window. I tried sleeping again. I told the bird to shut up, and the bird went on singing, the coloratura of birds. I cursed the bird and got up to face the day. </div>
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How many of the dead or injured heard birdsong when they woke up yesterday in Boston. Did they curse the bird or sing along with him? Who was waiting by a window for them to get home--a wife, a son, a cat? </div>
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The bird was there again this morning. In his tree, singing, hours before the sun would come up.<br />
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Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-18762921816721680102010-07-19T05:38:00.000-07:002010-07-28T14:24:33.724-07:00One Tomato, Two Tomato . . . .<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgY__3eQ5xpD6JG6-UlWwbyfx6-O7iRHt20qRO6tSuwMFK-XO8f4gbEOEh7dXErepscyjrzycZ8booKiZeNDQ3LSZKJVqib7Dc9miCJjmyLuj2GleZTfPljEQp8wvrsMhteZ4Qgmb7DwFM/s1600/campbells.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgY__3eQ5xpD6JG6-UlWwbyfx6-O7iRHt20qRO6tSuwMFK-XO8f4gbEOEh7dXErepscyjrzycZ8booKiZeNDQ3LSZKJVqib7Dc9miCJjmyLuj2GleZTfPljEQp8wvrsMhteZ4Qgmb7DwFM/s320/campbells.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5499064974656411810" /></a><br />Many of the responses to the blog entry I posted last week about the season's first tomato concerned your own tomato memories and they were so lyric I'm thinking that if one doesn't already exist, there should definitely be an anthology of writing devoted to the tomato. The writing would include memoir, of course, but also poetry and fiction on subjects ranging from ketchup to a primer on how to make the perfect Bloody Mary. I'm thinking there must be something to this memory thing and tomatoes because as soon as I typed "ketchup," I flashed on those little foil packets of ketchup that a certain fast food restaurant used to ration in case we wanted to use them to fight "ketchup wars" rather than on our Quarter Pounders. Ketchup wars involved surreptitiously snipping the top off a packet of ketchup and hiding it under a napkin and when the moment was right, slamming it with your fist so that the contents splurted (in a perfect war) all over your "enemy's" shirt or, better yet, face. Once splurted, they were out of the game, though the game usually ended as soon as the manager got wind of what we were doing.<div><br /></div><div>Also, I marveled at the stories about how many people ate fresh tomatoes as children probably because I refused to eat a fresh tomato until I was in college and then it was a pink, flabby wintertime tomato that I hated, and rightfully so. I did eat Campbell's tomato soup but made with milk not water and always with a grilled cheese sandwich. This was typically the lunch my mom made on Friday when I was in elementary school and I remember looking out at the backyard, at the snow that had drifted up against the window thinking when I woke up tomorrow it would be Saturday.</div><div><br /></div><div>Here's a recipe for a more upscale, suitable-for-summer version of tomato soup, a cross between gazpacho and a smoothie. It's from the <i>New York Times</i>, but I modified it a tad. I made it with some tomatoes I bought at the Public Market and now I can't wait to make it with tomatoes from the Fire Escape Farm:</div><div><br /></div><div><div>2 large tomatoes (about 1 pound), cored and roughly chopped</div><div>12 ounces plain sheep’s-milk or regular yogurt (I used Greek = excellent!)</div><div>1/4 cup <a href="http://www.folivers.com/">F. Oliver's Heady Garlic EVOO</a></div><div>12 basil leaves, roughly chopped, more for serving</div><div>2 scallions (white and light green parts), roughly chopped</div><div>2 ice cubes</div><div>1 1/2 teaspoons red wine vinegar, more to taste</div><div>Salt and pepper to taste</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Place tomatoes, yogurt, olive oil, basil, scallions, ice cubes, salt, vinegar, and black pepper in a blender. Purée until smooth. Taste and add more salt and vinegar, if necessary. Pour into small bowls and garnish with chopped basil. Drizzle soup liberally with olive oil. Enjoy.</div><div><br /></div><div>Yield: 4 servings.</div><div><br /></div><div>Also: Tune in next week when I attempt "Sarah's Fire Escape Salsa" (with apologies to Rick Bayless' "Rooftop Garden Salsa").</div></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-10613712250088090182010-07-14T12:36:00.000-07:002010-07-15T15:23:00.654-07:00The First Tomato of the Season<div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVMUR9NdSOTmCkrBBsA6KDa8FiBRfWKglDWmfwr5Norv16ws6ht-Cc6AOkaKdDFcR3uICxdhbB1pkF10LAepdSFyI7QUbvliLjI0xF9Teaumt1Kob4HrWHp2BuRVb6eGHP3jazvVf99co/s320/IMG_8790.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5493853797387322178" />I put in my fire escape garden over Memorial Day weekend, my second year as a farmer. Last summer the fire escape hosted a large purple petunia, one tomato plant and two pots of basil. The tomato produced one perfect piece of round red fruit and then stubbornly refused to yield another, though it did break out in yellow flowers until the first frost. The basil was great but the petunia was the all-around champion. After looking out the window during an unseasonably warm spell in early December, I scribbled the following in my notebook:<br /><br /></span><span style="font-weight:bold;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">December</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br />On the fire escape, one<br />stupid petunia still blooms,<br />purple trumpet blowing<br />high notes at the sky long</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">after the rest of the band</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">has packed up</span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">and gone home<br /><br />This season, no petunias. Instead, I bought tomato and basil plants--two of each--put them in pots over the Memorial Day weekend and prayed for rain and sun. At noon today, I picked the first of what I hope will be many tomatoes and enjoyed it with a little </span><a href="http://www.folivers.com/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">F. Oliver's Heady Garlic</span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">, fresh basil and Israeli feta cheese. Delicious! </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span><br /></div></div></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-89972220853333920062010-07-07T12:52:00.000-07:002010-07-13T11:20:35.768-07:00I Love Thrift Stores<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2d6WRzATcaH4gjbD7UFcJiIMXkmNvHoLHrcGN4IlkvtiYZFRj5a8wGt0mMNv0uBSYr0EPTOM_3J-l86NfidZiKz1sb5Uo4z-wgN95WjwRam0HD6mxLr5s8gqe1w-dU5M8FU2qX1TsMpE/s1600/IMG_8789.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh2d6WRzATcaH4gjbD7UFcJiIMXkmNvHoLHrcGN4IlkvtiYZFRj5a8wGt0mMNv0uBSYr0EPTOM_3J-l86NfidZiKz1sb5Uo4z-wgN95WjwRam0HD6mxLr5s8gqe1w-dU5M8FU2qX1TsMpE/s200/IMG_8789.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5491255676732633890" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"> can't wait to try out some of the patterns in this book--only a dollar at the Salvation Army.</span><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Some of the sweaters are a little dated (plaid?) and some of the guy models look like Prince Charles in his salad days, but there's a lot of good basic patterns, too. Something to attempt when the temperature goes below 80 . . . </span></div><div><br /></div></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-17356691411397644642010-07-05T06:13:00.000-07:002010-07-05T06:28:41.172-07:00Abundance Abounds<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUQTkXEfNW3XaClaiH6yVA3TZerzrstuYN9J-NZU9aJUaBAGiATd8IUifPzs6njW7usNHXRGDtK2GKuSD4PXkpV4YQl6aGFHxAfWhNrvPB9kACyUSXM1xRCJ0h-tUwBnxo9KqEnJf1x60/s1600/IMG_8684.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiUQTkXEfNW3XaClaiH6yVA3TZerzrstuYN9J-NZU9aJUaBAGiATd8IUifPzs6njW7usNHXRGDtK2GKuSD4PXkpV4YQl6aGFHxAfWhNrvPB9kACyUSXM1xRCJ0h-tUwBnxo9KqEnJf1x60/s320/IMG_8684.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5490412486304692386" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small; ">The Weather Channel is predicting "abundant sunshine" for today. Say that out loud a couple of times--abundant sunshine--and tell me if it doesn't fill up your mouth the way a Godiva truffle does. According to my dictionary, "abundant" means "abounding with" or "rich." So we're rich with sun today and we don't have to pay a penny to enjoy it.</span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">I'm going swimming. </span></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-5359482703567522412010-04-10T06:17:00.001-07:002010-04-10T07:18:24.435-07:00Picture This<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgt8liAhDD4SF0Ffeb95q_gSIaQbLWeUAQp9a7YHTXuQ7fO5MI7280rY069brKFj5kZzcHsogMCRMB5MX6i67xvr4knzXSDm5fkJodM_lcbNHlJeSTemvt4CdnjyrU6n505foEJODsGEIU/s1600/IMG_8784.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgt8liAhDD4SF0Ffeb95q_gSIaQbLWeUAQp9a7YHTXuQ7fO5MI7280rY069brKFj5kZzcHsogMCRMB5MX6i67xvr4knzXSDm5fkJodM_lcbNHlJeSTemvt4CdnjyrU6n505foEJODsGEIU/s320/IMG_8784.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5458509532746029058" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">As the lavatory stall to the world, Facebook is a conundrum. It's a veritable mindsuck, but it's also a font of information. Often, Facebook is where I get a head's-up on the latest news-- the recent deaths of poets Lucille Clifton and Ai, for example, well before their respective obituaries appeared in the </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">New York Times.</span></i><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Facebook is also how I linked to this </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/04/07/dining/07camera.html">story</a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/04/07/dining/07camera.html">,</a> having completely missed it in that day's </span><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Times.</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"> The entry that accompanied the link was roundly dismissive of the twits who post photo blogs of the food they eat, especially the ones who do it daily. Now I'm not a regular follower of any of these blogs, but I happen to like food pictures. The Big Boy in my hometown in Michigan featured a photo of strawberry pie that would make you howl at the moon (failing that reaction, you might order a piece). Frankly, the pie was terrible--the crust was gluey and the strawberry filling was so sweet it made your teeth ache--but the picture was delicious.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I've never before posted a picture of food (at least, not deliberately), probably because most of what I make looks like dog food. But when I made this plate of bruschetta last weekend, I had to take a picture of it before I ate it. I like how the red tomatoes look on the yellow Fiestaware plate, next to the blue wineglass, and the napkin and the crazy-colored table. After I took the picture, I ate some and I was happy and full, and it occurred to me that food should make us feel that way all the time, instead of guilty and full of loathing. That "bad" is a word we should reserve for wars and for disease and for people who hurt other people--not apply to ourselves because we ate a chocolate chip cookie.</span></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-88138557940458263352010-04-04T09:06:00.001-07:002010-04-11T09:32:30.198-07:00Yes, Spring . . .<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFVtGItWqUSJyMHLQ7peWgm0poFtVpuKq9zZWM-YBRWJtiIE_uHLJ0AuhlkiBmOT7XkD6WPeBgkPJfq99eLGzNQrcN1ndntbQimAe3rNG9DbMzxK412PjYuEfDMCjauiFaliRVKAaEoEo/s1600/IMG_8738.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 261px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFVtGItWqUSJyMHLQ7peWgm0poFtVpuKq9zZWM-YBRWJtiIE_uHLJ0AuhlkiBmOT7XkD6WPeBgkPJfq99eLGzNQrcN1ndntbQimAe3rNG9DbMzxK412PjYuEfDMCjauiFaliRVKAaEoEo/s320/IMG_8738.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456323853967163634" /></a><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt;line-height:16.0pt;mso-pagination: none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">The forsythia is out, the daffodils are up and the blog is emerging from its winter hibernation. Aside from three sinus infections, I actually enjoyed winter, particularly the four Wednesdays in January when I hosted the All Write! winter workshop in my house (half the class, hard at work, is featured in the photo). I've typically found January, not April, to be the cruelest month, but not this year. The camaraderie and level of work that was shared by the group was absolutely inspiring. The wine and snacks were pretty good, too. </span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt;line-height:16.0pt;mso-pagination: none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">At any rate, I've decided to host two new classes for spring: </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Poetry Boot Camp</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"> and </span></span><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Little Lies/Little Truths</span></span></b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">. The classes are designed to get you writing through a series of in-class prompts, with a little discussion of craft tossed in for good measure.</span></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt;line-height:16.0pt;mso-pagination: none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">I've included times and rates below. If you're interested in reserving a spot in one of the classes, post your response below.</span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt;line-height:16.0pt;mso-pagination: none;mso-layout-grid-align:none;text-autospace:none"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#333333;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); line-height: normal; font-weight: bold; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Poetry Boot Camp: Four Nights/Sixteen Poems</span></span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Four Wednesdays: May 12, 19, 26 and June 2</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Time: 6:45-8:45 p.m.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Limited to six participants </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Fee: $125 (payable at the first class.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><br /></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Little Lies/Little Truths: Writing Flash Fiction/Flash Nonfiction</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Four Thursdays: May 6, 13, 20 and 27</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Time: 6:45-8:45 p.m.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Limited to six participants</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:small;">Fee: $125 (payable at the first class) </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <!--EndFragment-->Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-20594020104618289872009-10-05T16:12:00.000-07:002009-10-07T10:16:57.300-07:00The Defiant OnesA student wrote me an e-mail the other day apologizing because he was dropping the creative nonfiction class I'm teaching. He'd really enjoyed the first four weeks, he wrote, but his course load was too heavy and so he was dropping the class, but he "defiantly" hoped that he could take it sometime, maybe next semester.<div><br /></div><div>I wrote him back and said I'd be happy to have him back in class if he "definitely" wanted to be there. But not "defiantly."</div><div> </div><div><br /></div><div>These days the news is full of the H1N1 virus. But I'm more concerned about the "don't read/can't write/ can't spell" epidemic affecting the youth of America, most particularly the ones I teach. Each year, it seems, I'm spending less and less time on the creative aspects of writing, more so on the writing skills these kids should have mastered in junior high. Sure, it's great when a kid understands, by the end of a semester, that the big letter goes at the beginning of the sentence and the little dot at the end. That's progress. But if I'm supposed to be teaching them to construct a compelling narrative with personal and universal appeal, I'm not able to do so. You can't build a house using only a screwdriver. And if you can't write a sentence, you can't write. Period. </div><div><br /></div><div>Defiantly so .... </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-5414241404649809932009-09-27T11:34:00.001-07:002009-09-27T11:36:02.880-07:00This Sporting Life<!--StartFragment--> <p class="MsoNormal">I still dream of being a sportswriter, and the dreams are always bad. Most often they’re deadline dreams where I can’t find my computer or I’ve lost my game notes. Where I show up for a game long after it’s over. Where someone is yelling at me over the telephone and I hang up and quit. Trust me, they’re awful. It’s been twenty-two years since I wrote my last newspaper story and I still have the dreams.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Most of my dreams have one foot in reality. Contrary to popular belief, being a sportswriter is hard work. You work late and get up early. You work on holidays and weekends and spend a lot of time on airplanes or waiting for one. (A friend of mine joked that she knew it was time to retire when she went to a friend’s house for dinner and reached for her seatbelt).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Also, you don’t get to turn off the TV when the game gets ridiculous. You have to sit around long after the carnage is over and figure out how to frame a compelling narrative for an awful game.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">I can’t speak to how the profession is now, but it used to be a lot harder for women. There was the locker room thing, of course. The doors opened grudgingly, often as a result of legal challenges, and once inside, I learned to follow a code of etiquette in order to survive. I learned to look up, never down, at a gigantic naked man. After skidding off a piece of wet tape and nearly falling, I learned <i style="mso-bidi-font-style:normal">never </i>to wear heels. I learned, as poor Lisa Olson evidently did not, never, ever to sit and be idle, lest I be accused of peeping. And I learned from a Now-Famous Veteran Reporter how to deal with a gigantic naked man who insisted on flashing me whenever I came within whiffing distance. “Tell him you’ve seen better burritos on a Chihuahua,” NFVR counseled me.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">I started thinking about all this after reading the “Fifth Down Blog, ”a regular interactive feature in the online edition of the New York Times. In this particular blog, readers posed questions for Judy Battista, the paper’s beat reporter for the Jets. “K in MD,” for example, wondered whether clock management “<span style="mso-bidi-font-size:13.0pt;mso-bidi-font-family: Georgia">is a quarterback issue or a coaching issue? I ask this after watching Chad Pennington’s problems in the last two minutes last week.” Ian, meanwhile, asked Ms. Battista’s opinion of rookie quarterback Mark Sanchez, whether he can replicate “the success of Joe Flacco and Matt Ryan in their rookie season.”</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-bidi-font-size:13.0pt;mso-bidi-font-family: Georgia">Not surprisingly, her answers were comprehensive and thorough. The real surprise for me was the implicit level of respect accorded to her by her questioners. And yeah, okay, I realize the blog is refereed by NYT editors to circumvent the occasional nutball who might believe a woman’s place is in the home, not the press box. But I wager to say that if blogs had existed a quarter century ago when I covered sports, there would have been a lot more “It’s back to the kitchen for you, girlie,” instead of a mutually respectful dialogue between reporter and reader.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Evolution? </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Novel Issues. . . . <o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal">Unstuck again. Full speed ahead. </p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <!--EndFragment-->Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-19619131221578114492009-09-20T16:38:00.000-07:002009-09-21T14:55:38.761-07:00A Good Yarn, Part II<b>A Diet High in Fiber<br /></b><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal;">One of the best things about living up here on</span></b></div><div><b><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal; ">the North Coast of the United State is our proximity to diverse landscapes. Go north a few miles and you'll hit the south shore of Lake Ontario. Go west and you'll enter the Niagara Escarpment. Go south and east and you'll more than likely come across one of the eleven Finger Lakes. If you look at a map, you'll see the lakes resemble the thin fingers of an invisible hand spread across Western New York. But I like to imagine the lakes were created when a giant's hand came down out of the sky and raked his fingers through the earth. </span></b></div><div><br /></div><div>In addition to being the second-largest wine region in the United States, the lakes are also home to a number of fiber artists, many of whom took part in last weekend's <a href="http://www.gvhg.org/fest.html">Finger Lakes Fiber Arts Festival </a>in Hemlock. My sister Penny and I drove down on Sunday and spent</div><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEggpKWzksA8uMA3rI6VPQQDMAAxhHQyYUb5QFf8azTgCZqswD8-7duvXCIaIJN6_hdYuC3hgGPN6qAnlMQGg4tXNNgo1tweg6TMZtQkj_gYTRJOky7_BP8gmbDdnbY47j9AgyZ0FZU6mP4/s320/IMG_8712.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5383700780032401202" />a couple of hours fondling the most beautiful yarn I'd ever seen or felt, most of it hand-dyed and spun. We also petted a couple of alpacas (they have very soft necks) and held a huge white angora bunny. We dropped in on a sheep herding demonstration, where (as my sister pointed out) it seemed like the dog was having a lot more fun than the sheep. In fact, the sheep reminded me a little of my students at the end of a long semester ("What? This shit again?"). They were hilarious, but my favorite animal, hands-down, was the goat in the picture above, who seemed fascinated by a toddler in a stroller. I think he looks like Jeff Spicoli, the Sean Penn character from "Fast Times at Ridgemont High." What do you think?<div><br /></div><div>I bought two skeins of sale yarn. But I could have spent a fortune.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>The Tangled Skein</b></div><div>Writing last week was crappy. Really. For four days straight, I showed up and banged away at the keys only to end up deleting most of what I wrote. Nothing is more frustrating. I compare it to knitting where you realize you made a REALLY OBVIOUS mistake on an intricate cable pattern three inches ago and so, in order to live with yourself and start sleeping at night again, you just have to rip it out.</div><div><br /></div><div>But there's another analogy between writing and knitting that I call "the tanged skein." If it sits around long enough, yarn has a mysterious way of getting tangled up. Before you can start knitting again, you have to sit down and untangle the skein. It's tedious and takes patience, but if you stick with it, you get to a place where the yarn seems to smooth itself out and fall away from the skein the way it's supposed to. </div><div><br /></div><div>I think writing is like that, too. Often you have to go back to where the knot is--the line in the poem that doesn't work, or the character action in a story that feels out of character or forced-- and undo the tangle. In writing, this means delete, move stuff around, start again: whatever works. Eventually you write yourself right. </div><div><br /></div><div>If all else fails, you can knit.</div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-16528239742182388122009-09-13T14:03:00.000-07:002009-09-13T14:33:29.009-07:00A Good Yarn<b>My Name is Sarah and I'm a Knitter . . . . </b><div><br /></div><div>I posted a picture of my cats on Facebook a couple weeks ago and got some interesting comments. Some sharp-eyed readers honed in on the plastic bins the cats were sitting on, more specifically, what was <i>in</i> those bins. </div><div><br /></div><div>Yes, it's yarn. Yes, I knit.</div><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEju0s9u8M52y9p1ffMYWf8Q6wD1pFcL_c3uTthLBYyJZJgIEfvTUL9_zV0bAf2BkcjLW_PxOTuX7BGcp6T4P7gIzlQjFSsfkJj5DJaSTdM8UuokNXURMlVgdfSGS96mOVG7z7BGwQufO84/s320/IMG_8707.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5381065706444288626" /><div><br /></div><div>God, I feel so much</div><div>better now that that's out.</div><div><br /></div><div>Actually, I've been knitting on and off for most of my life, but I took it up more consistently in 1984. That was the year I quit smoking (cigarettes) and needed something to do with my hands that wasn't lighting and/or stubbing out Newports. So knitting it was. I knit sweaters for myself, my sisters, my mother, and my friends. I knit mittens and gloves and hats and scarves and when I wasn't knitting, I was chewing on my knitting needles because I so badly wanted to smoke a cigarette. Eventually that addiction faded away, but I've kept knitting, especially in the fall. How else can I excuse my addiction to NFL on CBS or the baseball playoffs? </div><div><br /></div><div>Last year I knit my three sisters and five of my friends fingerless gloves in all colors of the spectrum. This year, in an effort to be kind to the environment and to my bank account, I'm going to knit a multi-colored blanket using scrap yarn in my bins, donations from friends, and recycled wool from thrift shop sweaters. I plan to knit until the end of the year and will blog my progress at various times, with pictures. </div><div><br /></div><div><b>The Other Yarn</b></div><div><br /></div><div>Revision on the novel is progressing nicely. I finished the Section I on Thursday and will begin to tackle Section 2, the part I wrote this summer, tomorrow. </div><div><br /></div><div>I've been revising poems as well. Such fun . . . </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-20453566062928586222009-08-30T05:57:00.000-07:002009-09-01T08:01:29.496-07:00Home Again, Home Again<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5smve8zRWsO5AUWg1PeVwd1ZCoh77Qi8EaVkb77zOBGrs0BnWpVXG6rLNitvGiEuEUeQ6tPyXUlZAcRq-StLoLLH9sAWbuHilyvanwQGdTeHxeZ2aaGMM3thKwOOLPLS25mJ08-xdntU/s1600-h/IMG_8700.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg5smve8zRWsO5AUWg1PeVwd1ZCoh77Qi8EaVkb77zOBGrs0BnWpVXG6rLNitvGiEuEUeQ6tPyXUlZAcRq-StLoLLH9sAWbuHilyvanwQGdTeHxeZ2aaGMM3thKwOOLPLS25mJ08-xdntU/s320/IMG_8700.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5376513853633966082" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOC97jXDuQEPQVrZz-ODQfyTIgdWPxPRRNvlESECZYD4ciJM8pYHy0UaP9xoJZ87rfphWpiuVtc6IahoiMZ-izRelYwoH8htTz7bNM9vYt7lLm-U0z2OSZiRVpnPCAcs4VnaYxGRJYCHQ/s1600-h/IMG_8705.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOC97jXDuQEPQVrZz-ODQfyTIgdWPxPRRNvlESECZYD4ciJM8pYHy0UaP9xoJZ87rfphWpiuVtc6IahoiMZ-izRelYwoH8htTz7bNM9vYt7lLm-U0z2OSZiRVpnPCAcs4VnaYxGRJYCHQ/s320/IMG_8705.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5376513850798871922" /></a><br /><!--StartFragment--> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b>Goodbye to All That . . </b>.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">In Western New York, seasons do not arrive or depart according to a calendar date. You learn not to expect spring on March 21, but weeks later, with the appearance of the first daffodil or forsythia buds. On the upside, summer usually makes an appearance long before June 21 while the downside is the possibility of snow on Halloween. In fact, that’s happened three times in the 18 years I’ve lived here.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">My summer this year started on May 1, when I opened a blank page on my computer and typed “Part II.” A couple hundred pages later, I finished the first draft of a novel, as well as a dozen or so first drafts of poems I may or may not renovate. Thanks to a grant from the National Endowment for the Arts, I didn’t have to be a Kelly Girl or part-time professor. I got to be a writer for four straight months and I’ve loved every second of it.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">While we’re still more than three weeks from the first day of fall on the calendar, there are signs that autumn is already here: last weekend’s long line of cars in front of the dorms at the University of Rochester, for example. The ripe beefsteak tomato on my fire escape garden. The temperature that feels more football than baseball The perceptible difference in the light at the end of the day—no longer the white heat of summer, but the gold of autumn.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Damn. I’m not ready for this summer to end.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b>Mad Dash Home</b></p> <p class="MsoNormal">My residency in Nebraska City ended on August 7 and rather than going south to visit a friend of long-standing in Illinois, I decided to drive to my dad’s house—what my mother used to call a “mad dash home.” I don’t know exactly what constitutes an MDH in time and/or distance, but it pretty much means driving a very long way in one day to get HOME. Which is what I did. After dropping a fellow resident off at the Omaha airport, I pointed my car east on Interstate 80 and drove the 700-hundred odd miles from Nebraska to Michigan. Except for a driving rain that followed me through Iowa and western Illinois, a massive traffic jam west of Joliet, and the general yuck around Chicago, it was just fine.</p> <p class="MsoNormal">Admittedly, a little mad, though. I’m a driving fool.</p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none; text-autospace:none"><b>A</b><b> Trip Through Life<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: normal; "> </span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">The last day of my residency, I went Dinty Moore's for lunch. DM’s is a tiny little Nebraska City institution consisting of an old oak bar, two fans that would probably do very well on “Antiques Roadshow,” and the best shredded beef sandwiches I’ve ever tasted. Now I don’t do a lot of beef, but when in Rome, you must eat beef with the Romans. Or something . . . .</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">Anyhow, the waitress/bartender. Linda, asked me where I was from and when I told her I lived in Western New York, she said she’d never been there, but she’d like to visit some day because she’d heard the Finger Lakes were beautiful. “But you know,” she said, “I think every place has its own beauty. You just have to be able to see it.”</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family:georgia;">I started writing this as a travel blog about my trip to and from Nebraska. And so, since life is a trip, I’ll keep on writing about the places it takes me. Try to see the beauty that’s there.</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-pagination:none;mso-layout-grid-align:none; text-autospace:none"><span style="font-family:Helvetica;mso-bidi-font-family:Helvetica;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <!--EndFragment-->Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-8388819559263244512009-08-03T10:58:00.000-07:002009-08-04T06:54:14.633-07:00Downs and Ups, and Sign, Signs, Everywhere There's Signs<div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Downs and Ups and Are</span></div><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 286px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfrkowsAPmA_5Oceh3tmBOV4CsPhdn_jD-XznScoe511b8iTfPLmISKTQhp4EA29cvGoF1nyHqFGJpicKI9YXr9OBNfgtpmx5YKhtQz1XXgOEg37gCqLq2a47ZjAfuqbmXZeO47TBK6yo/s320/champagne_toast.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366106356010701986" /><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEieJY8FCoVvQQA9yX-fR3l28ySVTcgebPDLGmeX_o4DeUw_GZXTbRDpDRYWmhMplO4ARScXuENQ-iUZBasjFPgoHwONipaJD_9ArrtNb2vrihOPtouguNCcH9N9P8BjzKT54dyASeMUhM8/s320/IMG_8681.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366106348596720018" /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;"> We There Yet?</span></div>In my family, the words "remember the time when . . . " will usually spin off into a story about something that happened when we were young, often on one of our yearly family vacations. Not long ago, my father was reminiscing about the trip we took to the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. Now, it's important to add here that the Upper Peninsula is Michigan in name only. I think I heard once that if Car 1 started driving south from the Michigan/Ohio line at exactly the same time that Car 2 headed north from the same point, Car 1 would arrive in Atlanta, Georgia, long before Car 2 hit the northernmost tip of the Upper Peninsula at Copper Harbor. <div><br /></div><div>This may be an urban myth and/or geographically incorrect, but it illustrates the point nicely that Copper Harbor is UP THERE and FAR AWAY. And to four kids under the age of nine, driving the length of the UP seemed like forever, probably even longer to my poor parents. Upon arriving late at the small motel/restaurant where we were staying in Copper Harbor, my dad asked the owner whether it would be possible to order peanut butter sandwiches for the kids and two cold martinis for the adults. "I think I can do that," she said.<div><br /></div><div>I don't remember, but I'm pretty sure we asked the question "Are we there yet?" a time or two during the drive that day, a question I've asked myself a lot recently as I sat down to write. So I'm happy to report that on Monday, August 3, at approximately 3:13 p.m. Central Daylight Savings Time, I arrived at the end of the first draft of my novel: 416 pages in all. </div><div><br /></div><div>I like to tell my students that writing is a lot of downs and ups: You get it down, then you fix it up. I have a lot of fixing up to do, but for now, I'm going to enjoy the moment. And maybe celebrate later with a glass of Champagne.</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Signs, Signs . . . .</span> </div><div>I had to include this photo of last month's sign in front of the First Baptist Church. </div><div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">About that Champagne . . . </span></div><div>I searched this town for a glass or a split of Champagne (i.e., anything bubbly and fortified). No glasses, only bottles. So the toast is on hold.</div><div> <br /></div></div></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-61768132907638105152009-08-02T05:49:00.000-07:002009-08-02T08:59:50.139-07:00A Winery in Nebraska, Poetic Closure, and Are We There Yet?<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_016zTldUCmuw-veLSD6Z8jVx6Lq99kUy-v-0K0GABCcPFjskEZzQtoDXYSKstg2a7q-xjq2mksrGvc4uv4MXL1bUbgEQiJotfb5yuJDLwgFCBuzatAFPdwhp-1tn9UK8kXcrPnyQ7uU/s1600-h/IMG_8686.jpg"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_016zTldUCmuw-veLSD6Z8jVx6Lq99kUy-v-0K0GABCcPFjskEZzQtoDXYSKstg2a7q-xjq2mksrGvc4uv4MXL1bUbgEQiJotfb5yuJDLwgFCBuzatAFPdwhp-1tn9UK8kXcrPnyQ7uU/s320/IMG_8686.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365359250286770418" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyTnXcVp3jHJ-PoWVU_oVldQqCcjSQhR5BKIC9eyCjs1bqaU_PdzhEavKtVQ1ZGajosPMtfYsQrMEGN66TMDup39xmx6T1fApecWBEFqFvy8tvo7aJcEq1s9yiDTGrEeeN2-a1LIyjLrA/s1600-h/IMG_8685.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyTnXcVp3jHJ-PoWVU_oVldQqCcjSQhR5BKIC9eyCjs1bqaU_PdzhEavKtVQ1ZGajosPMtfYsQrMEGN66TMDup39xmx6T1fApecWBEFqFvy8tvo7aJcEq1s9yiDTGrEeeN2-a1LIyjLrA/s320/IMG_8685.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5365359247297515554" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">A Winery in Nebraska</span><div>Since it's been nearly a week since I'd driven more than three miles at a time, a Saturday road trip was in order. After consulting my map and several pamphlets on local attractions, I pointed my car south and headed down Highway 75 toward Brownville, Nebraska. It's a tiny town shouldering the Missouri River, but one with a big and rich history. As with most river towns here, Lewis and Clark figure prominently in that history, but more recently, the town has become a haven for art galleries and bookstores. They're located along the town's main street in old, old brick and frame buildings. Being a bookstore addict, I visited several and came away with a now out-of-print poetry book, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">Collecting for the Wichita Beacon</span>, by William Kloefkorn, a terrific Nebraska poet.</div><div><br /></div><div>I took my new book down the road to the <a href="http://www.whiskeyruncreek.com/">Whiskey Run Creek Winery.</a> I bought a glass of chardonel and took it outside to the deck where I read poetry, listened to the waterfall and watched a cardinal tangle with a worm. The winery's main building is a 100-year-old barn that was moved 18 miles to its present location in 2001. Take a moment and click on the link above to read the entire history and view pictures of the move.</div><div><br /></div><div>Driving back, I crossed the river into Missouri and took Interstate 29 into Iowa and then west on Highway 2 into Nebraska. Three states in thirty minutes . . . </div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;"><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Poetic Closure</span></div><div>When does a poem end? And how will it end? In fire or in ice . . . oh, wait, that's the world. But back to those questions. If I had a nickel for every time I've heard "this poem isn't finished yet," I could pay my Sprint bill for the next year. That's a lot of nickels. And that's why, from 9-9:50 on Thursday morning, I sat in with a couple dozen MFA students from Nebraska-Omaha and listened to Bill Trowbridge's lecture on poetic closure, aptly entitled "Are We There Yet?" He started by relating the story of how, when he was a kid, his father hated that question. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">Hated it.</span> So much so that on one family trip, when they were within one hundred miles of the Grand Canyon and The Question was posed yet again, the dad turned the car around and drove all the way back to Omaha. </div><div><br /></div><div>While this isn't an option for concluding most poems, Trowbridge did discuss ways in which poets could end poems: the lid-snapping closure, anti-closure, the snaps-shut-but-still-surprising closure. He distributed handouts with great examples and included one of my favorite all-time endings, the one to James Wright's <a href="http://www.poetryfoundation.org/archive/poem.html?id=177229">"Lying in a Hammock at William Duffy's Farm in Pine Island, Minnesota."</a> Check it out for yourself and see if that ending doesn't surprise you just a bit.</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Are We There Yet?</span></div><div>Almost! I'm figuring the first draft will be complete by Tuesday. I may even type up one or two of the wanna-be poems currently soiling my notebook.</div><div><br /></div><div> </div><div> <br /></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-68699462892345901872009-07-31T05:37:00.000-07:002009-07-31T11:25:18.898-07:00Swimming Alone, Dining Together and More Pie<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHnT0vEnKIXbIjx8lI1MffQXZL3C1OIXFEmBdUnvPo7D-iv77ETP-Yg1jp5sUYb4GiV0tO_22hD0qagJ0L8jbAScYzXvKXxdO7ZwiIOQ8dIiJcqvRV7kGHeorB_Vklr8MCjq5kLt0ORy0/s1600-h/IMG_8673.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 202px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHnT0vEnKIXbIjx8lI1MffQXZL3C1OIXFEmBdUnvPo7D-iv77ETP-Yg1jp5sUYb4GiV0tO_22hD0qagJ0L8jbAScYzXvKXxdO7ZwiIOQ8dIiJcqvRV7kGHeorB_Vklr8MCjq5kLt0ORy0/s320/IMG_8673.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5364609315105530786" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPtqP_Xbw43R94CSkZz5r0NNybME6mA8v6WeFclLr9PBZgJ_NS5uZ0nj8a5spwhJgdlTav9BYtS_cgAxdibC5jpgV4q22sxz6i2VT7J01_q9Fk_7srP4G6CaPXFXCYbIY8EWkDDt01B5I/s1600-h/IMG_8675.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 203px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjPtqP_Xbw43R94CSkZz5r0NNybME6mA8v6WeFclLr9PBZgJ_NS5uZ0nj8a5spwhJgdlTav9BYtS_cgAxdibC5jpgV4q22sxz6i2VT7J01_q9Fk_7srP4G6CaPXFXCYbIY8EWkDDt01B5I/s320/IMG_8675.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5364609308194906882" /></a><br /><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Swimming Alone</span></div><div>I don't know about other writers, but I do know that I need some sort of daily physical activity other than typing (picking my cuticles while I wait for the next line to emerge doesn't count). For me, that form of activity is swimming, and on the days I don't swim, I try to walk. Magical things happen when you leave your computer and start to move. Your brain doesn't shut off exactly, but it does relax and when your brain relaxes, I've found creativity really kicks in. It's often after a good workout that I do my best writing. <div><br /></div><div>Anyhow, I love to swim outside during the summer, so I was happy to discover the Steinhart Park Pool here in Nebraska City. One dollar entitles you to swim laps from noon to 1 p.m. I went for the first time Wednesday and for the entire hour, I was the only swimmer in a seven-lane, fifty-meter pool. I asked the lifeguard afterward if this was the exception rather than the norm. "Nope," she said. "Hardly anyone swims laps." </div><div><br /></div><div>That's the pool. <a href="http://www.arbordayfarm.org/steinhart.cfm">Steinhart Lodge,</a> built in 1949, overlooks the pool. It's part of Arbor Day festivities here in Nebraska City, which is the home of the Arbor Day Foundation.</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Dining Together</span></div><div>For the past two nights, the other residents and I have done dinner together. On Wednesday, we went to a Mexican resident, El Portal, for dinner and drinks and last night, we cooked out on our patio. Erica, one of the visual artists in residence, made a delicious salsa from ingredients she'd bought that afternoon at a small farm market. The other visual artist, Neva, grilled brats and corn on the cob (also fresh from the farm market). Food has never tasted better.</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">Pie and More Pie</span></div><div>This has to be the pie capital of the world! There were five--count 'em--five kinds of pies on display at the farm market and more to be found at Arbor Day Farm, where they grow apples and grapes. Not all of them are as towering as Chris' (see earlier entry), but they're all tasty.</div><div><br /></div><div>I'm on the next to the last chapter of the first draft of my novel. Have also drafted a couple new poems that might be keepers.</div></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-34984413732233067942009-07-29T06:05:00.000-07:002009-07-29T06:51:03.010-07:00Killer Tired, Pie, and Thrift Shops<img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLox5OlQ0oT7-pcNZs7PV-8zl-lJgSxzBRmnKWI48JmNmGk0msmUNTsL-dF5iul_8tF1HdduiHajD9ZQBEFiItns3VbhSSNm90cvGp9IReSm1H_-bxayXdkkwsCUYWoqh4rRAg7iuIYUg/s320/IMG_8672.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363877947203992562" /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div>Greetings from the <a href="http://www.khncenterforthearts.org/">Kimmel Harding Nelson Arts Center</a> in Nebraska City, Nebraska, my home away from home for the next couple weeks. That's our front entrance </div><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 230px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi42HeVbOfwKP_m8cRK9BeEGvKvJ-NZe4-zjHyyzCj0WEcWHzwfZCXt7ZIZ1CF0GgQNNfMlQnc0cH5HNv8EQnLHOe0J4A-zBpyax1eFEHLjEooeZcYlcIoEwjU7_aoXcq-UEzHKPpfzwZI/s320/IMG_8669.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363877962127551730" /><div>(above) and the window immediately to the right is our living room and kitchen. It's across the street from the First Baptist Church, whose sign is currently featuring the message: "You think life is exciting -- wait 'til you die." </div><div><br /></div><div>There's a poem there someplace . . . Stephen Dunn would know what to do with it, I'm sure.</div><div><br /></div>Yesterday, I finally got to do what I'm supposed to be doing for the next two weeks, which is <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">write</span>. I wrote four pages on the first draft of the novel I've been working on (and off for the past couple years) and scribbled some wannabe poems in my notebook. I did all this despite being killer tired, but it was the good kind of tired where, if I wanted to, I could have crawled in bed for a serious nap or else done a power quickie. Contrast that with the bad kind of tired, which hits you midway through a tough day at work so that by 1 p.m. you're thinking that if someone offered you the choice of a nap or a million bucks, you'd take the nap. <div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>I'm thinking that driving halfway across the country is exhilarating, but also way tiring. So I wrote a lot and yawned a lot. I also moved around a lot, which helped. I moved from my office to my bedroom where I sat on the bed and typed and then to the patio where the stray kitten kept me company. He also kept me awake by periodically pouncing on my toes, perhaps thinking that they were some kind of exotic white sausage.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Yesterday was also the birthday of Denise, the center's director, so the four resident artists along with Denise and Pat, the center's assistant director, walked up to Chris's Cafe for pie and coffee to celebrate. The chocolate and lemon meringue pies were architectural wonders--in fact, they brought to mind the photos I've seen of the opera house in Sydney, Australia. In a word, towering! Afterward, the other artists and I walked down the street to a thrift store where I bought this full-length Ralph Lauren sweater coat for three dollars. I now have a reason to look forward to fall.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>After two days of clouds and showers, the sun is out: I plan to write all morning and then go for a swim. </div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-45829737223778381452009-07-28T05:46:00.001-07:002009-07-28T06:26:44.927-07:00From the Mississippi to the Missouri ...<img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzGqo9KT2mEjzMCiJfFMM4tXMEmk0RCUcFZuIYiEzvXEPz4FTURimt8FgOadI7lkqB-Qj3oeEd6N3X1eKkszmrhQXvJM7M7oLXXJbJDtthnsuLHmizAtV7QMvZ0TCYe6goaF2b2JoTSDI/s320/IMG_8661.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363500533464431922" /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8-AjP8qHjPHHnVInABJWt9QY_LJ0v7q6LSggg9JNnUrtFNngq9HwSUjaa-IVmYtOEccimjEf64i-4xnYWh0pX8tzOn5_Uj61PwJ222ij_YDJ_vDTwQlZ6qqtWV_ry5AHPVqV0HWjKpi4/s1600-h/IMG_8664.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8-AjP8qHjPHHnVInABJWt9QY_LJ0v7q6LSggg9JNnUrtFNngq9HwSUjaa-IVmYtOEccimjEf64i-4xnYWh0pX8tzOn5_Uj61PwJ222ij_YDJ_vDTwQlZ6qqtWV_ry5AHPVqV0HWjKpi4/s320/IMG_8664.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5363500540151101026" /></a><br /><br />Greetings from Nebraska City, Nebraska, where I'm spending the next couple of weeks on a writing residency at the <a href="http://www.khncenterforthearts.org/">Kimmel Harding Nelson Center for the Arts</a>. There are four of us in residence right now, five if you count the stray kitten that sleeps on my patio: two painters, a composer and me. I'm not sure yet what the kitten's talent is.<div><br /></div><div>After fueling up at a great breakfast buffet at the <a href="http://www.kingsleyinn.com/">Kingsley Inn,</a> I started on the third and final leg of my journey on Sunday. I'd contemplated driving north to DesMoines to see Edward Hopper's "Automat" at the art museum. But a glance at the map convinced me that it was too far out of my way and after nearly sixteen hours of driving in the previous two days, I wanted just to <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">get there</span>. And so, after a walk along the Mississippi River, I headed out on Highway Two, a scenic two-lane highway that crosses the state from east to west. Along the way, I saw only two McDonald's (good), hills and wildflowers (even better) and too many wild turkeys to count--the bird, not the drink. The wild turkeys I saw tended to huddle in gangs by the side of the road and glare at me--somewhat malevolently, I thought. That could have been because I was the only car on the road for miles. I also saw a quail or two and dozens of hawks dive-bombing the farmer's fields in search of small mammals. Iowa Public Radio broadcasted both hours of Bob Edward's show--a real treat to hear, as we don't get it in Rochester. I also listened to the Cardinals get thrashed by the Phillies in Philadelphia and lots of Foreigner-Journey-Kansas-Boston on an oldies station. More than a feeling . . . </div><div><br /></div><div>I stopped for gas in a small town where the gas station bathroom featured a sign on the door designating it as a safe place in a tornado-- somewhat ironic, since the tornado action during the weekend was in Western New York. </div><div><br /></div><div>After that beautiful drive across Iowa, I crossed the Missouri River into Nebraska City, Nebraska, around 3:30 in the afternoon and checked in at the Lied Lodge & Conference Center. <br /><div>As stated in their literature, the lodge is environmentally friendly, heated and cooled with renewable fuelwood that's grown on the grounds. It's also gorgeous, if you like Stickley furniture and Craftsman decor, which I do. The lobby (pictured here) was a nice place to sit and type on my computer. As an added bonus, students from the University of Nebraska's low residency MFA program are currently in residence here and there are faculty lectures each night. I hope to catch William Trowbridge's lecture on Thursday--he's the author of <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">The Complete Kong</span>, which contains one of my favorite poems, "Kong Looks Back on His Tryout With the Bears." </div><div><div><br /></div><div>More about that and the residency tomorrow.</div><div><br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div></div></div>Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601198150782311965.post-41121695304948223712009-07-26T06:46:00.000-07:002009-07-26T07:13:23.436-07:00Greetings from the road<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhNKAXkMj59Eq1I-BPoFs8r7-ihbDVdr18u_wIM5LMXZicFBMyUK6-WoLZPsGiWLLxRX0a8x3aIgt_yp_tBACbIhG4LrTnApOXBWwv_l_772eBgzfsuS71X91jEVarz1d6JsI8tm4bKTE/s1600-h/IMG_8659.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhNKAXkMj59Eq1I-BPoFs8r7-ihbDVdr18u_wIM5LMXZicFBMyUK6-WoLZPsGiWLLxRX0a8x3aIgt_yp_tBACbIhG4LrTnApOXBWwv_l_772eBgzfsuS71X91jEVarz1d6JsI8tm4bKTE/s320/IMG_8659.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5362770993314027394" /></a><br /><div><br /></div>Greetings from Fort Madison, Iowa! I'm officially west of the Mississippi River by about a hundred yards, having crossed over from Illinois last night. I'm on my way to Nebraska City, Nebraska, for a two-week residency at the <a href="http://www.khncenterforthearts.org/">Kimmel Harding Nelson Center for the Arts</a><a href="http://www.kimmelcenterforthearts.org/"> </a>where I hope to draft more poems and finish a first draft of my novel. Rather than fly into Omaha, I decided to make the journey part of the experience and write about it.<br /><br />Friday, I drove from Rochester to my father's house in Michigan (above) and yesterday, I made the drive from Michigan to Fort Madison. It's a little off the (very) beaten path of Interstate 80, but the drive here was much more scenic, if longer. I listened to two baseball games on the radio--the Cubs beat the Reds in an early afternoon game and the Tigers came back in ninth to tie the game and win in extra innings. I was chasing the game on the White Sox network and needless to say, the announcers were less than pleased that the White Sox essentially blew a chance to pick up a game on the Tigers.<br /><br />I'm staying at the <a href="http://www.kingsleyinn.com/">Kingsley Inn</a> in Fort Madison, an old Victorian building built in the 1850s that faces the river. It's named after Alpha Kingsley, an army officer from Vermont who supervised the building of the actual Fort Madison. One of my ancestors on the Freligh side, John Henry Freligh was also from Vermont and he became a riverboat captain on the Mississippi. Not to hard to imagine that passed this way a time or two.<br /><br />I'm off to find breakfast and take some pictures of the river, which I'll post tomorrow.Sarah Frelighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00179763516490982848noreply@blogger.com2